.However what Astrid doesn't realize however is actually a fact that both Ortega as well as O'Hara-- who has 2 kids-- can verify: The truth that your connection with your parents changes and grows as you both age, as well as ideally right. "Your world facilities around [your children] when they are actually babies [and] it's so much job yet charming," O'Hara points out. "Later, you truly miss out on that, since then you can't obtain them to do just about anything you wish them to perform, considering that they begin cultivating their own thoughts, their personal opinions." As well as eventually, you end up in the location O'Hara, whose kids are in their 20s and also 30s, finds herself now, capable to pick up from her youngsters. "They are actually simply such trendy young people," she states. "I'm not their buddy, yet I like having talks with them and getting to know exactly how they think of lifestyle.".